relationships & fetishes

[AdamAndWill]

Thanks! now how do I explain that I like sitting on piles of mashed potatoes and gravy while wearing a leather thong and hitting myself in the head with a squeaky mallet? :biggrin:

Will: These would be real, homemade mashed potatoes and gravy, right? Because I can't abide that stuff that comes in little tubs and cans. Ruins the mood.

In the context of a long term relationship., sexual activity often changes and evolves over time. We're both open to things now that we wouldn't have been 5 years ago. I think that the level of trust counts for a lot, and makes it a lot easier to talk about things too.