I really need advice please help!!!

[Gideon]

Ok,

Going to offer an alternative here.

We are assuming you have not told your parents you are bi, have you told your parents?
What would be the reason for sending screenshots of the convos and pics to your parents?
Because you are bi and haven't told them?

If the only reason for the blackmail is because you haven't told your parents you are bi, then whether you tell them or not is not as important as him BELIEVING you have. So why not just tell HIM that you've already come out to your parents and they know everything about him specifically. You don't actually have to do it, just make him believe you have.

Then I would report all the threats and blackmail to Skype and have his account disabled by them. Get the police involved. You can do all of this without telling your parents.

But in the end I would consider coming out in your own way on your own time.

Take the control back, but definitely do not have lunch with him, DO NOT meet him in person.

This last line I would stress -heavily-

If he is unstable enough to use blackmail to get what he wants, to threaten you...whether he would do it or not, it is NOT someone you should be meeting with in person. Especially not to appease his bullying tendencies.