08-12-2014, 08:22 AM
Good advise everywhere here. Do not meet with this man. His actions are nearly textbook examples of someone with severe control issues. Based upon your description, this man is mentally unbalanced, possibly dangerous.
Whether you decide to simply cut off communications with him and wait to see if he's gaming you to out yourself, or you take the bull by the horns and come out to your parents, don't meet with him. Another thing to consider... What if he decides to visit your house in person? Not to be an alarmist, but if he knows where you live and has the means to get there, the potential for ugly, harmful behavior is possible. There is more to this now than just your secret unfortunately.
Whether you decide to simply cut off communications with him and wait to see if he's gaming you to out yourself, or you take the bull by the horns and come out to your parents, don't meet with him. Another thing to consider... What if he decides to visit your house in person? Not to be an alarmist, but if he knows where you live and has the means to get there, the potential for ugly, harmful behavior is possible. There is more to this now than just your secret unfortunately.
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