I really need advice please help!!!

[Gideon]

Also, most of you seem to have thought that he is mentally disabled and dangerous. Guys, I'm not an idiot, yes it may have been stupid of me to give him my address, but i am a god judge of character, i wouldn't have done it unless i was 100% sure he wasn't dangerous or mean spirited, he is not. I have skyped him a couple times and had genuine conversations. he said that stuff about san fran and all that because he thought he really liked me or something i dunno, im not trying to stand up for him, more for myself.
Telling my parents isn't the issue, it's the shock they'll get when they open that envelope, which is totally out of my control

I'm confused, man. How is threatening(and you believing) that he will send this conversation and pictures to your parents via mail make him NOT mean spirited or dangerous? He obviously scared you enough with the threats that you felt the need to share and get advice....so maybe you're just trying to see the good and ignoring the bad?

I still think you should absolutely NOT meet with him, all things considered. Though if you do, please make absolutely certain that you meet in a public place(no picking you up in a car) and that you let someone responsible know where you are and who you'll be with.

And if your parents already know, and you are certain he'll follow through with the threat...why not just say that you're having an issue with someone who is threatening to make you look bad and ask them to toss the mail if they do receive it(and you aren't able to snatch it up first)

There is no way I'd give in just to appease some threat like that. It's bullying and it's a shitty thing to do, a shitty thing even to THREATEN to do.