08-27-2014, 09:54 PM
Two reasons to not pursue this. First, you could just be wrong. Second, if he is gay or bi and is in the closet, you could bring unwanted pressure in his coming out process, something that is more difficult for some than it for others. If this is like most of these many straight guy threads, you are going to see people saying to go for it. I don't agree. If someone is struggling with his orientation and has remained in the closet, the last person he needs assisting him with this process is someone who's motive is a sexual or romantic interest.