My "straight" friend?

[StingRay]

Im straight and heres what I think about this.

1) One time he volunteered that he wore briefs and then dropped his pants to show me. I told him I know what briefs look like. when us straight guys do things like that around each other and don't think there's anything sexual about it. Hew as just treating you the way he treats his straight friends.

2) We used to go to the movies often together. He selected a French film that was advertised that it was about a murder in a gay cruising area. Halfway thru the film he got up to leave because he said he was uncomfortable. I bet he told you what made him uncomfortable but you forgot to write that. Id be real uncomfortable sitting in a theater watching gay sex scenes with a probably mostly gay audience sitting next to a guy and not a girl.

3) Over dinner he told me that he keeps some pot in his apartment to "lure" women back to his place (ie suggests to a date that they go back to his place to smoke). After the dinner we were walking towards his places and he said "Do you want a puff?" I declined. my gay roomie and I keep a bar always stocked. If I invite a girl home for a drink its usually cause Im thinking about things leading up to sex. When I invite guys or a gay over its got nothing to do with sex. Why cant you just accept hes trying to teat you the way he treats his straight guy friends? What about my gay roomie inviting a girl back home? See how stupid this is?

4) He recently met a woman and her gay friend on the street and they started chatting. The woman and her friend went to a gay bar and he went with them. He claimed that he left after a few minutes. But the next day, he asked if we could walk by the bar to see what it was called.

This doesnt mean anything. Sounds to me like you are trying to weave your own fantasies out of nothing.

Has it ever occurred to you maybe to accept him as he is at face value?