11-09-2008, 10:54 AM
Since both Zeon and BiPenny have brought up the subject of coming out I thought I'd jot down a couple of thoughts.
The first is that you do not have to be out to everybody, especially not initially. However you obviously have to be confident that those you are out to can keep a secret or just plain don't know your other friends, family, etc.
The second is that the first one is always the hardest, so if possible choose someone you can trust to be cool and supportive about it, it makes all the others a lot easier.
Oh and the third is take your time, if you need to, you don't have to come out until your ready to. However life is a lot easier and more enjoyable when you have come out.
P.S. Marshlander you really are too kind in your comments.
The first is that you do not have to be out to everybody, especially not initially. However you obviously have to be confident that those you are out to can keep a secret or just plain don't know your other friends, family, etc.
The second is that the first one is always the hardest, so if possible choose someone you can trust to be cool and supportive about it, it makes all the others a lot easier.
Oh and the third is take your time, if you need to, you don't have to come out until your ready to. However life is a lot easier and more enjoyable when you have come out.
P.S. Marshlander you really are too kind in your comments.
Fred
Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
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