11-17-2008, 10:46 AM
Twenty-one's not old. I was in my forties, before I could come out ... even to myself, incredible as it sounds. Others have been older. Being in denial all those years caused me some mental health difficulties. Mother Nature doesn't like being ignored!
If everyone knows anyway, you certainly don't have to make a big song and dance of it, unless you decide you want to, that is
Perhaps you'll find it easier to allow yourself to accept this part of you when you have some real news to share; like, for example, you can just talk about what you and your boyfriend did at the weekend?
As Mrs Beaton might have said, "First, find your boyfriend ..."
All the best
If everyone knows anyway, you certainly don't have to make a big song and dance of it, unless you decide you want to, that is
Perhaps you'll find it easier to allow yourself to accept this part of you when you have some real news to share; like, for example, you can just talk about what you and your boyfriend did at the weekend?
As Mrs Beaton might have said, "First, find your boyfriend ..."
All the best
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