03-09-2016, 12:14 AM
Sex isn't just a physical activity and penetration leading to orgasm. Granted there should ideally be attraction, but there should also be chemistry, trust, lust, love, intrigue, interest, infatuation, compassion, ... and a whole slew of emotions that go with it.
Perhaps what you're feeling is remorse, fear, insecurity, intimidation, ... and at 40 there probably is some decline in sexual urges. That certainly isn't to say that you shouldn't attempt to be intimate with someone.
Perhaps what you're feeling is remorse, fear, insecurity, intimidation, ... and at 40 there probably is some decline in sexual urges. That certainly isn't to say that you shouldn't attempt to be intimate with someone.
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