03-11-2016, 12:53 AM
You've mentioned you have a condition, and I think there's the reason for your low sex drive. Messed up hormones leave messed up traits sometimes.
Is this particular trait that you have a bad thing? Unless there's some other side effect, I'd say no.
(You could go see an Endocrinologist, mainly to discard potentially dangerous side effects of this condition
You're not the only person out there who roams on the asexual side, although, granted, the cases are not numerous.
What I think you can do when trying to date, is first finding someone who appeals to you on an emotional level, cause you seem to crave that and I can tell you not a few folks out there crave the same. When you connect with someone on that level sex is no longer the only thing that drives him.
The rest is compromise, which is something that everyone needs to do, you get plenty of cases, I bet, in which one partner has a lower sex drive than the other.
Is this particular trait that you have a bad thing? Unless there's some other side effect, I'd say no.
(You could go see an Endocrinologist, mainly to discard potentially dangerous side effects of this condition
You're not the only person out there who roams on the asexual side, although, granted, the cases are not numerous.
What I think you can do when trying to date, is first finding someone who appeals to you on an emotional level, cause you seem to crave that and I can tell you not a few folks out there crave the same. When you connect with someone on that level sex is no longer the only thing that drives him.
The rest is compromise, which is something that everyone needs to do, you get plenty of cases, I bet, in which one partner has a lower sex drive than the other.