Having trouble meeting people on scruff/grindr/online?

[InbetweenDreams]

Not sure about NYC but it would seem most guys are Grindr are just for hookups...I live in a rural area so things differ somewhat, but if you're looking for something with a little more subsistence you might consider other apps...or even consider gay bars/clubs...or other social avenues. POF has been a pretty good for me in terms of finding guys who are more relationship oriented...seems to attract a different group of guys...