Dating/Friendship Advice

[kindy64]

hey man,

ive tried to get so much advice from so many people, and I havent had someone give such concise, and appropriate advice for me.

In terms of communicating with him, how should i approach it? don't text him unless he texts me, or usually give him a few days of space? I dont want him to feel as if im pressuring him, he's respected my opinions and i want to respect his too.

thank you so much

x

Awe, thanks...

As far as specifics, you have to play it by ear.

As far as sexting, let him initiate it. As for regular texting, limit it during working hours, ie don't text him all day long. Every contact does not need to be soul baring intimate stuff. You don't have to flirt in every text. You want to come across as caring about him and his problems. Not needy and desperate. Develop your friendship, learn what he likes.

If you don't get a response right away, don't take that as a sign of rejection and start blowing up his phone. People get busy and someone pinging them constantly can get annoying.

Most of the texts between my boyfriend and I are rather boring. How's your day been? Anything exciting happen? What do you want to do this weekend? Have for dinner? etc...