04-12-2016, 02:40 AM
pman117 Wrote:I agree with Kindy64. Did he even give an answer about liking you? Stay strong, you have no reason to back away from your initial statement of meeting in person. It might suck, and it's gonna hurt but letting him change your mind with a snapchat might send the wrong message.
The everyday messaging might be him realizing that you're closing in on the end so it might be a "crap I'm going to lose him" thought process on his end. Which isn't bad but if he keeps you hanging on and still avoids meeting, what have you gained?
Not to be harsh, but the quicker you determine when enough is enough, the quicker you can eventually start getting over the grieving. I've been a victim of holding on until just a couple days ago. It sucks big time but once you finally say to yourself, "you know what? I'm tired of feeling like crap" you'll feel really good about yourself.
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no he hasn't actually replied. all he does is still look at my snapchats.
harsh is better than being soft. the advice is brutal and honest, and i can honestly say i hope he does call me, but if he doesn't, i'll know that i've given myself ample time to move on.