Dating/Friendship Advice

[pman117]

im just still trying to phase out of the overthinking stage, where i hope we become something. I keep worrying he's seeing someone else and just stringing me along, which he has said he isnt.

Im trying to feel it as friends, at times it works.

It'll come. Probably won't be overnight but you'll slowly get there. Look at the positives as best you can, that's what I've been doing. It is INCREDIBLY easy to think about the worries and the negative side of things. Believe me I know. But in all honesty, if you guys are talking almost daily and he says stuff like that, I'd take that as him being interested to an extent.

Me and my friend don't talk on a daily basis and he doesn't typically say things like that (I wish he would but we've talked about each of our expectations and he's compassionate enough to not want to lead me on since he's not looking to date currently, which is super awesome) but we have a great time when we do talk/meet for beers or dinner or whatever and that's what I hang my hat on best I can.

Let the little niceties take up more of your thoughts. There's a form I have about challenging negative thoughts that might help you. I'll post a link if I can find it later.

EDIT: don't have enough posts to list links so....Google "challenging negative thoughts" you should get some helpful aids for that.

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