Advice about my straight friend

[gyhr]

She could be going through a number of things. A homo-erotic sexual awakening? Maybe? She could like you mentally/spiritually, but not sexually. Maybe she's straight leaning. Maybe she's bi. Maybe she's in denial.
Who knows.

I've had this issue a number of times, and it's kind of really skewed my perception. That kind of mixed signal situation can have an affect on you, so I would firstly recommend you take the steps you need to take for yourself in the coming out process, regardless of your relationship with her.

I don't know about you, but I carried this romantic notion that the coming out process instantly gets you a companion -- I watched a lot of TV. It doesn't. And even if she turns out to be a lesbian, that still doesn't mean it would work out for you.

Your health and sanity is what is important here. Your relationship with yourself and your truth are what's important. Do not let her confusion confuse you.

And you might need to tell her that. Tell her that she needs to figure herself out. It's not your responsibility to guide her self discovery.

Hope this helps.
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