Straight or No?

[Confuzzled4]

Oh my goodness, this reminds me so much of a past but still fairly recent experience for me. Rather than have you dig around for my previous post, I'll summarize here. The tension happened between my best friend and me. We played in the pool and had a lot of physical contact, he slapped my ass and said "you have a nice plump butt", he went to put his arm around me then pulled back when other people were around, he asked me to take a picture of myself and send it to him before he went away for job training in another state for a 4 month period. How did this end? I went to visit him and got crushed, but at the end of my trip he said I love you and blew me a kiss. I might add that he has a girlfriend. I still think he's confused, but right now we don't speak. At some point in the future we'll see each other and I'll see what happens. But to me, my situation had a stronger basis for my thoughts. If I'm to be honest, I don't see the details you described as indicating that he's gay or has interest. It's incredibly difficult, and for me this was my first love pursuit so I did not handle it well. If someone is sexually confused, you just can't force them it goes badly for everyone. I learned the hard way that it's best to go for people you know for certain are gay.