06-06-2016, 07:59 AM
Anocxu Wrote:You described a major challenge in most relationships.
I'm seeing a trend where people date a carbon copy of themselves because it's...easier. Having hobbies and common interests is a quick way to bring folks together.
Staying together is really what matters...
Growth and dynamics seems to keep relationships solid.
Personally I would never date a carbon copy of myself.. it would really end in battling egos and competitiveness.
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Some couples dig that sort of stuff..
CorsacReborn..
I love your post.
You're right, people date carbon copies of themselves for ease. I find gay couples do this on much larger scale then straight couples do. Just remember what you see on the outside for other couples isn't necessarily what happens within their relationship.
When I was dating guys I tried not to limit myself too much (I still had some preferences), my partner came along at a time when I was using dating apps to try and make a few gay friends where I live rather then find more dates. We've had ups and downs like all couples but we've persevered through it all and I think it's made us stronger as a couple.