07-05-2016, 05:48 AM
Since you are in a big city, just go to a gay bath house. You have to show your ID to get in for security reasons, but after that it is completely anonymous. You can certainly find someone there to hook up with in the way you want to do it. Just be upfront with the guy on what you want to do.
Just as an aside, maybe you could start thinking of your "dark secret" as just a private desire. So you want to play with a penis. It's the 21st century. It's no big deal, and there's nothing dark about it. Doubtful anyone cares much about your need for this. Should be a very easy thing to accomplish.
Just as an aside, maybe you could start thinking of your "dark secret" as just a private desire. So you want to play with a penis. It's the 21st century. It's no big deal, and there's nothing dark about it. Doubtful anyone cares much about your need for this. Should be a very easy thing to accomplish.