07-05-2016, 09:46 AM
Hello, @bicuriousgeorge, and 
to GaySpeak. Lest someone should forget to advise you on this, you should remember to come prepared, ie have the right tools for your first time doing things with a guy and to a guy. Why don't you start with that? What sort of sex are you looking forward to performing, what kind of tools will you need to perform it anonymously etc.... The Portuguese film / art maker Antonio Da Silva concedes that there's a whole lot of men out there who don't identify as gay (and don't really want a relationship with another man other than sex) who are ready to have sex with other men, just because sex with other men is fun and informative etc... Look up his site and see what he has to say about it. One of his short films is called Be Sexual, it discusses that particular frame of mind.
http://antoniodasilvafilms.com/be-sexual
to GaySpeak. Lest someone should forget to advise you on this, you should remember to come prepared, ie have the right tools for your first time doing things with a guy and to a guy. Why don't you start with that? What sort of sex are you looking forward to performing, what kind of tools will you need to perform it anonymously etc.... The Portuguese film / art maker Antonio Da Silva concedes that there's a whole lot of men out there who don't identify as gay (and don't really want a relationship with another man other than sex) who are ready to have sex with other men, just because sex with other men is fun and informative etc... Look up his site and see what he has to say about it. One of his short films is called Be Sexual, it discusses that particular frame of mind.http://antoniodasilvafilms.com/be-sexual
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