05-29-2017, 03:52 PM
baristajedi Wrote:Just to add, like when I'm with a woman, I really want to make her feel good and she wants to do the same for me, we admire eachother' beauty/bodies but we don't expect perfection and especially this really narrow view of what beauty is. We don't expect anything but the realness of what our partner is feeling and expressing. With straight sex though, in my experience, there's so much pressure to make yourself sexy, rather than just having the experience itself and the chemistry between the two people make the whole thing hot....This is true, I reckon, but are you sure hetero couples, especially those who've been together a long time, don't have the same experience of enjoying each other's bodies however old and tatty they may have become?