First gay experience

[Zen]

I hope so!!

I just know that so many women (straight friends) talk about the way their boyfriends/husbands expect them to have better butts, be thinner, make more noise during sex, make faces during sex, no matter how long they've been together.... early or long into the relationship. But I want the world to have good sex, so I hope this is just the ranters I'm hearing only.

Having come late to these posts quite late...

I really appreciate your points Baristajedi.

I guess, gathering a sense of the majority of your points, in a porn sense, I feel the same about guy/guy and girl/girl. I enjoy watching guys pleasuring each other and women doing the same. Guys passion for each other is very arousing, whilst women's compassion for each other is very arousing. I don't like the power dynamics in straight porn, and I think, as you mention, there is a very unhealthy power inequality dynamic there that really isn't nice or appealing to me at all.

I think, in a similar way, this extends into reality and a lot of guys have unrealistic expectations of their female partners and on sex. I think that this related to the rise in porn. I remember the comedian Micky Flanagan, I think, commenting that a whole generation of guys are coming up that will think that all sex ends by coming all over their partners face.

Just my tired, Sunday afternoon observations on this!