First gay experience

[Camfer]

Just to add, like when I'm with a woman, I really want to make her feel good and she wants to do the same for me, we admire eachother' beauty/bodies but we don't expect perfection and especially this really narrow view of what beauty is. We don't expect anything but the realness of what our partner is feeling and expressing. With straight sex though, in my experience, there's so much pressure to make yourself sexy, rather than just having the experience itself and the chemistry between the two people make the whole thing hot....

I think you're touching on the fact that generally men are very visual in their attractions. So when your partner is a man, you may feel that pressure of his narrow, physical view of beauty. Plenty of gay men experience that with other men. So two gay women sounds like a place where that doesn't happen. Lucky you!