Boyfriend/Relationship

[IanSaysHi]

It's nice that you know what you want in a partner, but being so specific in what you want is going to make it incredibly difficult to find someone. Sometimes you just have to try dating a whole bunch of guys, even ones who you wouldn't usually go for. You may be surprised and a good relationship can be built on that old adage of 'opposites attract'.

The one solid, rewarding relationship I had happened completely by accident, on a random offchance when I wasn't in the mood for a date but I just thought 'sod it' and met him. He wasn't the kind of guy I'd envisioned in my dream montage I'd created in my head but we ended up having a couple of great years together.

Either way, good luck in your search.