07-31-2016, 08:43 PM
This does happen allot, the best advice that can be given is make a choice. Risk a friendship for a possible husband. Although if you are good friends, just come out and tell him you find him attractive but will respect his boundaries. Do it on a friendly joking sense to get the message across but sent in the lightest manner possible.
I think allot of "straight" guys are bi, personally I would never admit I was gay. The only people in my family that would accept me are my mom and step dad. Sooo if we were out in public you would never know I was bi/gay, I don't act it. Math says if there is one instance their is likely more than one. I don't think my situation is uncommon and his may be the same! perhaps letting him know your interested will draw him out of his shell? just go super slow and drop some hints, test the waters and be prepared to bail in a moment.
I think allot of "straight" guys are bi, personally I would never admit I was gay. The only people in my family that would accept me are my mom and step dad. Sooo if we were out in public you would never know I was bi/gay, I don't act it. Math says if there is one instance their is likely more than one. I don't think my situation is uncommon and his may be the same! perhaps letting him know your interested will draw him out of his shell? just go super slow and drop some hints, test the waters and be prepared to bail in a moment.