Not sleeping when sleeping over

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I've been trying to overcome this for 25 years! I've been with my partner for 17 and we still have a hard time sleeping together because I can't fall asleep with anyone next to me. I've tried everything and have yet to find a solution. I'm now considering cognitive behavioral therapy. I've tried everything, herbal meds and teas, prescriptions, talking, bigger bed and anything else you can think of I've tried it. It's really hard on my relationship. Sorry, I don't have advice but this may be something you may have to learn to live with. Some people just can't sleep with someone else in the bed.