Idk what to do and I'm desperate for advice..

[Confuzzled4]

Camfer hit on something that I want to highlight, and that's the speed at which you guys are moving along. Three weeks is not a long time, especially if it's only weekends. It's tempting when you have interest to go full speed ahead, but it is not a good thing. My best friend did that, she's still with the same person 6 months in, but she constantly guesses things and I have this terrible feeling she's in for a world of hurt. Just slow it down a bit, you can't build a skyscraper in a day.