10-06-2016, 05:34 PM
This situation definitely calls for discussion to be had. This sounds like one of those triangle relationships where the friends love each other, but she doesn't have dick, so you fill that void for her. But then again, you said you guys haven't had sex yet, which makes me wonder if [MENTION=20941]Camfer[/MENTION] is right. No sex?! Or just oral?
This chick knows exactly what she's doing! He belongs to her, whether its romantically or not!
I'd say just ease into a personal discussion with him while in bed cuddling maybe. Whatever you do, watch your tone and don't drag her. He'll immediately become defensive. Ask questions about her and their past to see how he answers. Make sure you don't sound like you're snooping though. Short & quick responses would worry me. Also watch his body language as he talks about her. If he gets up to go to the restroom all of a sudden or shifts away from you, he wants to end the conversation. Which would mean there's PROBABLY something he's not telling you.
Whatever you do decide to do, don't ever go to her on the issue! She'll use everything you say as cannon fire to break you guys up.
Good luck!
This chick knows exactly what she's doing! He belongs to her, whether its romantically or not!
I'd say just ease into a personal discussion with him while in bed cuddling maybe. Whatever you do, watch your tone and don't drag her. He'll immediately become defensive. Ask questions about her and their past to see how he answers. Make sure you don't sound like you're snooping though. Short & quick responses would worry me. Also watch his body language as he talks about her. If he gets up to go to the restroom all of a sudden or shifts away from you, he wants to end the conversation. Which would mean there's PROBABLY something he's not telling you.
Whatever you do decide to do, don't ever go to her on the issue! She'll use everything you say as cannon fire to break you guys up.
Good luck!