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Getting messed about with on dating sites
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artyboy Wrote:Right I'm on a proper dating site in the UK. It's a free one.

The thing is I'm chatting away with a 22yro uni student who is cute. I like him quite alot and we been chatting for a week and half. We have even swapped numbers. He lives in London but only till he finishes his degree.

The thing is I'm starting to have a feeling he's just leading me on. I've asked him when does he want to have a chat on the phone and he replied soon. I know he's trying to get work done etc but I'm not to sure he's interested in going further than messaging.
We're been getting quite close until today all the cuteness has gone and it felt like he wanted me to talk more flirtatiously with him.

This is the first time I've tried dating a younger guy too so it could just be an age thing. Hmmm any advice people?

artyboy Wrote:He has said he's having anxiety iuses towards his uni work atm. It's his third and last year so yeah you probably yet. I'm remember it to do well myself.

Here's my advice coming from experience dating while either being in school or dating someone in school. More than likely not leading you on as it is difficult to find free time. I only work a full time job and it is hard to find time to date, especially with conflicting schedules, money...time, etc.

If your intent is a relationship, settle down with someone, etc. Take your time with him because if you don't it will not work. Re-read that because sometimes we get the idea that people have freetime they don't really have. I know that after I have a bad day at work I might not want to talk to anyone, I might just want to watch TV and go to sleep. Have to keep in mind sometimes being a student they might be up for 18 hours cramming for a test and getting a text from someone saying why don't you talk to me, or something like that really just spells for disaster and much unneeded stress. Not saying you've done any of that, but if you think this guy is great otherwise and you want to see where things go, relax a bit, take you time and when you both have time to meet up and go on a more proper date you'll be able to get a clearer picture of who they are and whether you want to continue dating.

I will also say that 22 is a bit young too, but I don't know how guys in other countries are, I know here in the US you can probably count on them being immature.
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Getting messed about with on dating sites - by SilverBullet - 10-10-2016, 04:26 AM
Getting messed about with on dating sites - by JustAperson - 10-10-2016, 05:32 PM
Getting messed about with on dating sites - by InbetweenDreams - 10-10-2016, 05:42 PM
Getting messed about with on dating sites - by Ammon - 10-10-2016, 09:13 PM
Getting messed about with on dating sites - by kindy64 - 10-11-2016, 02:19 PM
Getting messed about with on dating sites - by Ibex - 10-23-2016, 10:12 AM

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