Says he isn't interested

[Gemini]

Did he start having sex with a woman? If so, maybe he wants to put the gay encounters behind him. Or maybe he's just deeply mired in denial?

But telling you that you have to stop being "so gay" is offensive. I mean, he's basically telling you to stop being yourself.

And I'm sorry, but I need to ask --- is he a real friend, or does he stay around because you spoil him and buy him stuff? If you stopped doing that, would he stay around?

IDK, this is totally your call. Do you guys hang out, do things together, talk, have a real friendship? I mean, if he absolutely doesn't want sex, are there still things you do together that makes the friendship worthwhile?

I guess if it were me I wouldn't hang around hoping he might want sex again. It's your call, of course. But is this a real, two way friendship? Or just him, taking what he can get?