Says he isn't interested

[InbetweenDreams]

Sounds like he is in the closet and definitely using you. You definitely need to get away from that. I have been there, done that. I think we tend to put ourselves in that position. Sometimes giving is better than receiving because it feels good to make someone happy, whether it is giving someone a small gift, take them to dinner whatever it is. That's all well and fine but when someone is not even trying to be a decent friend, like intentionally playing with your feelings....that's when it is a bad thing. Sooner or later it will catch up with you and just leave you feeling used and abused.

So to confirm what everyone else is saying, get rid of them. It is ok to be critical of people, be friends with people who will treat you fairly.