Says he isn't interested

[Gemini]

I have often thought since the sex stopped, what is going on. As we seen eachother daily, he'd come by after work and I would make his dinner for him and we'd just hang out. There are many things we do besides sex I class him as a good friend though I like him more so than that. We've climbed mountains, gone the cinema, usual things really. Recently his work moved area, so he doesn't pass mine now after work. And he has not came to see me at all. So I am beginning to think as most you say, was he using me to be fed, and be nice to get the odd gift. Since he doesn't pass mine now he'd be going out of his way from where he lives. Another thing is he will not do anything with me with his friends, friends which I also know, but he will not want me there.

If I care about someone, I'm fine with going out of my way a bit to be able to see him or her. If he won't even do that, it makes me wonder how much he actually cares about seeing you.

The other thing, not being willing to do anything with you and his/your friends. I recently had a guy act that way, and it was because he was afraid that they'd think he was gay too. You deserve a guy who'll be happy to go out of his way to see you, and proud to have friends see him with you.