11-07-2016, 02:58 PM
bodylanguage Wrote:Thank you all so much for replying,
I guess asking him out is my only solution. I forgot to mention we go to the same college ( and it's where I met him ), so he has maaany friends here because he's a senior, wouldn't it annoy him to let his friends to sit with a newcomer instead ? We only had dinner once together but it was with our mutual friend that introduced us to each other. Also, we haven't spoken for a while, so I hope it wouldn't sound weird when I'll ask him out next time I meet him around ?
It's not high school (or the British equivalent.) He's an adult, you are making your way there. His friends shouldn't have a problem meeting someone new, or get bent out of shape if he's sitting with just you.
Don't overthink things. Ask him if he'd like to do something you both would like doing. Movie, dinner, coffee, go for a bike ride... whatever. The activity is less important than doing it together.
Don't take crushes to seriously. It's basically your emotions getting the better of you.