01-18-2017, 09:09 PM
Ok, I am new to this site so I don't know if am doing things correctly, but ....
I have been there. I am now an older man who lost my partner from a stroke several years ago. Yes it terrible to think about going on without him. But unless he is in poor health look at what you have now with him. Why look to enjoying every minute you have now and let the future come as it will. If you keep looking and the possible negatives, you can't really enjoy the present positives.
As for me -- I said that I had been there losing my partner.... OK... I moped around and shut myself off from everyone know that this was the end.... However, a few friends forced me into doing something new and crazy and I met a man that I have fallen in love with. DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE FUTURE ... ENJOY THE PRESENT.
I have been there. I am now an older man who lost my partner from a stroke several years ago. Yes it terrible to think about going on without him. But unless he is in poor health look at what you have now with him. Why look to enjoying every minute you have now and let the future come as it will. If you keep looking and the possible negatives, you can't really enjoy the present positives.
As for me -- I said that I had been there losing my partner.... OK... I moped around and shut myself off from everyone know that this was the end.... However, a few friends forced me into doing something new and crazy and I met a man that I have fallen in love with. DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE FUTURE ... ENJOY THE PRESENT.
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