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Need advice about the guy
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Waiting is so passive. Being passive rarely gets you who/what you want. Learning to give the right amount of energy in pursuing a guy is important.

Ask him out for this next weekend, Friday or Saturday, doing something specific. If he does not commit to it, then tell him, "Okay, let me know next time you are free and want to hang out."

Then, move on and forget about him until he contacts you. He may never. Or he might. But at least you have tried. Don't wait. Don't be patient. You made your point now move forward in your life. Then, find someone else who interests you. See if the new guy is equally interested in you.

Never make someone your priority if you are his no more than his fallback if someone else doesn't work out. No one who is truly interested in you is too busy to make time to see you, however briefly it may be.
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Need advice about the guy - by kamilgtnt - 12-12-2016, 03:26 PM
Need advice about the guy - by TigerLover - 12-12-2016, 04:19 PM
Need advice about the guy - by InbetweenDreams - 12-12-2016, 04:39 PM
Need advice about the guy - by kamilgtnt - 12-12-2016, 09:59 PM
Need advice about the guy - by InbetweenDreams - 12-12-2016, 10:14 PM
Need advice about the guy - by kamilgtnt - 12-12-2016, 10:46 PM
Need advice about the guy - by Camfer - 12-13-2016, 01:58 AM

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