02-14-2017, 09:56 PM
[MENTION=24247]Lesley72[/MENTION], 
to the forum. I can't think of an answer that would give you resolution, I think other members have tried to give you varying opinions which don't really explain any of your ex husband's behaviour. Being gay is a much nature as it is nurture (by which I mean, the way a person would react to discovering they are gay would be mostly influenced by their upbringing and entourage and how safe they perceived being from admitting it). Maybe there are answers in his past but that will be difficult to find out, if he's not been open about his youth. It may be something to do with something which he's been pushing back for so long that it can't come creeping back to the surface without causing great anxiety. These are just hypotheses.
to the forum. I can't think of an answer that would give you resolution, I think other members have tried to give you varying opinions which don't really explain any of your ex husband's behaviour. Being gay is a much nature as it is nurture (by which I mean, the way a person would react to discovering they are gay would be mostly influenced by their upbringing and entourage and how safe they perceived being from admitting it). Maybe there are answers in his past but that will be difficult to find out, if he's not been open about his youth. It may be something to do with something which he's been pushing back for so long that it can't come creeping back to the surface without causing great anxiety. These are just hypotheses.
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