04-11-2017, 07:20 AM
I think the idea trapping him in a car for 3 hours is rude. How about meeting him out for dinner, coffee, or drinks and telling him then?
I also agree the others here - you should not or expect him to keep this a secret from his wife.
I also agree the others here - you should not or expect him to keep this a secret from his wife.
Use a condom.