Coming out to a best friend

[Zen]

I think the idea trapping him in a car for 3 hours is rude. How about meeting him out for dinner, coffee, or drinks and telling him then?


I also agree the others here - you should not or expect him to keep this a secret from his wife.

Some interesting points [MENTION=14205]drobs[/MENTION].

That could make for a potentially awkward journey- not in a bad way necessarily, but people react differently. In a restaurant he might excuse himself from the table for 5 and process the info and come back and be "that's cool mate...". In a car he might feel cornered.

Yeah, he might not be able to keep it from his wife. When I told my best mate, by phone, his girlfriend knew straight away as she had to pick his jaw off the floor as his old university wingman told him that. They both drove a long way to see me the next day- so people can be great!