Wanting the guys we know are bad for us

[Jimmy5635]

Talking from personal experience and not having done extensive studies of doctorates, but it has either been "accepting the love we think we deserve" or simply just wanting something interesting, something that's either off-key or out of the norm, and most often enough the "bad boy" or person we're envisioning is just out of the norm that they're special. My ex was special till I found out he was just an entitled rich kid with dad issues and wasn't the idol I envisioned. Now I don't want to go that way, I'd rather be comfortable with someone than feel like I'm standing in the presence of someone that I can't anticipate their next move. I want someone I can get to know, in a positive manner.