06-04-2017, 10:23 AM
I haven't the foggiest why my sexuality is how it is.
I've noticed beards and facial hair in general is probably one of, if not the biggest factor in me finding someone hot. To a point where I even feel a bit bad about it.
Couldn't really say why that is...maybe that's how my brain instinctually recognise someone as a sexually matured male? *shrugs*
Perhaps androgyny is something I am not attracted to; which is weird because I love how visually striking androgyny can be, I often find such people beautiful.
I have huge respect for anyone who embraces their androgyny; refusing to bend to fit gender binaries. As I do with most people who refuse to bend to societal pressure to fit norms.
It seems my instinct that decides who are viable sexual partners just doesn't trigger when it comes to androgynous folk in the same way as it fails to trigger with women, which...sounds kind of bad...sorry...
Other than that...I don't have any other major preferences when it comes to physical appearance.
A few minor ones.
I don't have a preference for a specific body type, but I'm generally not attracted to skinny men. But at the same time, I am attracted to lanky men(the difference to me being that of body proportioning). Also, I prefer hairy men, but both of these can be easily over looked.
When it comes to personality my preference is for people who share the same values as me, and is into some of the same stuff as me. I have more of an interest in shy folk, as I feel we could relate to each other a bit better. That's it really.
In summary, I'd say I'm probably pretty...vanilla? if that's the right way to say it?
My attraction mainly comes from instinct, I really don't think there's been much in the way of influencing forces. So I'd say I was born this way.
I've noticed beards and facial hair in general is probably one of, if not the biggest factor in me finding someone hot. To a point where I even feel a bit bad about it.
Couldn't really say why that is...maybe that's how my brain instinctually recognise someone as a sexually matured male? *shrugs*
Perhaps androgyny is something I am not attracted to; which is weird because I love how visually striking androgyny can be, I often find such people beautiful.
I have huge respect for anyone who embraces their androgyny; refusing to bend to fit gender binaries. As I do with most people who refuse to bend to societal pressure to fit norms.
It seems my instinct that decides who are viable sexual partners just doesn't trigger when it comes to androgynous folk in the same way as it fails to trigger with women, which...sounds kind of bad...sorry...
Other than that...I don't have any other major preferences when it comes to physical appearance.
A few minor ones.
I don't have a preference for a specific body type, but I'm generally not attracted to skinny men. But at the same time, I am attracted to lanky men(the difference to me being that of body proportioning). Also, I prefer hairy men, but both of these can be easily over looked.
When it comes to personality my preference is for people who share the same values as me, and is into some of the same stuff as me. I have more of an interest in shy folk, as I feel we could relate to each other a bit better. That's it really.
In summary, I'd say I'm probably pretty...vanilla? if that's the right way to say it?
My attraction mainly comes from instinct, I really don't think there's been much in the way of influencing forces. So I'd say I was born this way.
Silly Sarcastic So-and-so