When it comes to YOUR sexuality and sexual tastes...

[MikeW]

Why is the sky blue? No, seriously ... what is "blue"? Yeah, you and I may agree that it IS blue, but so are a lot of things... but they don't look like 'the sky' at all. So what ARE we talking about?

I can get VERY philosophical about all this... and may yet... but I haven't the time at the moment to fully address these very complex questions.

But we really need to ask ourselves "What do we mean?" Really, what ARE we talking about? What turns us on, lights us up, makes us feel driven yet more fully alive, causes desire and passion, the need to engage with ourselves and/or others toward a release of energy that the French have called, "La petite mort":

"The little death" is an expression which means "the brief loss or weakening of consciousness" and in modern usage refers specifically to "the sensation of orgasm as likened to death".

This is no small matter! Hopefully, I'll have time in the next day or so to flesh this out!