06-06-2017, 06:55 PM
Personally I like a wide range of guys, generally 20 to 50 and with different body shapes (I prefer bear or muscular, though I'm also attracted to average, skinny and/or hairless dudes). But I don't have an explanation for it. I'm also into both vanilla and bdsm, I'm 100% passive and I can't explain that either. I just like who/what I like.
One thing I noticed: the older men I like kinda resemble my father when it comes to body shape and skin color. Maybe I wanted my father to be closer to me? But why am I also into guys who are totally different? Why am I attracted to men in the first place? I dunno. I don't think psychology went that far anyway, so I wouldn't hope for a definitive answer anytime soon.
One thing I noticed: the older men I like kinda resemble my father when it comes to body shape and skin color. Maybe I wanted my father to be closer to me? But why am I also into guys who are totally different? Why am I attracted to men in the first place? I dunno. I don't think psychology went that far anyway, so I wouldn't hope for a definitive answer anytime soon.