06-14-2017, 01:32 PM
It sounds like he really doesn't want to use the word 'relationship', even when he's in one. I don't know whether he wants to keep his options open or is just phobic about anything that even resembles commitment. Even in an open relationship, there's a certain amount of commitment.
He's your first guy, but not your first dating relationship. Basically, whatever the label, we're just all human beings. How would you have reacted if a woman ran you around this way?
I think you're wise to be cautious. It's obvious that you have feelings for him, and he probably has feelings for you, too, but he needs to get his head on straight and figure out what he wants.
He's your first guy, but not your first dating relationship. Basically, whatever the label, we're just all human beings. How would you have reacted if a woman ran you around this way?
I think you're wise to be cautious. It's obvious that you have feelings for him, and he probably has feelings for you, too, but he needs to get his head on straight and figure out what he wants.