Advice on flirting and being friendly...

[richhix56]

I met this guy at the gay men's single group at Facebook. We have been chatting for about a week now. We haven't been on a date. yet. We just seemed to hit it off instantly and he lives 100 miles from me. It just seemed like he and i are on the same page in terms of a long term relationship. Even though we are not there yet. I thought that things were going in that direction. Apparently I am a gay men's group there and he is unaware that i am in that same group. That is where he openly flirted with another guy in the early morning hours at a time I thought he was asleep. I do not know it just seems like a red flag to me.