Top and bottom problem, really need advice

[postman]

I am not sure if your fella is in denial or just messed up.....
I regularly have sex with a man and yet outwardly I'm straighter than a roman road and I don't remember the lesson at school when they taught me what Bisexuality meant.....I still haven't really got a clue.....
I have several gay friends who I am very close to who are completely unaware of my sexuality so gaydar isn't always 100% accurate either.....

not sure what your preferred "normal life" is but this guy either fits in to it or he doesn't........lucky for you that's entirely your call and your life too.....

find someone who makes you happy and enjoys your dick if that's what you want......stop worrying about what your friend wants and put yourself first.......my master is 100% gay and he never bottoms or touches my dick and I ain't complaining .... your "straight" guy sounds just my type