Top and bottom problem, really need advice

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About the guy's prostate, how exactly do I feel it @___@? When I am inside him, it feels really good but it does not feel like my dick is touching anything inside him. And also, my hand is not really good, and it 's hard to make him hard when he is in pain. Do you have any tip to make him hard when I am inside him?

it's not always easy, it's pretty much the male G-spot...

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it should a feel a little harder and raised but not massively so, it's a kinda walnut-sized protrusion >.< but you won't feel it obviously . If you've ever seen a guy in porn cumming hands-free from being fucked, chances are the guys hitting right on his prostate. It's more to do with feel than anything else and looking for reaction, and you'll notice when you get the right angle hpefully; so for missionary with him on his back, you'd be curling your hips down under him and working in at an upward angle...just push in until you hear him gasp a little, it's almost like trial and error. There's a lot of diagrams online that can show you where it is in your body, better than my explanantions anyway. Look up 'prostate massage' and it should tell you way more. Oh yeah, there's a toy called the 'Aneros' that is designed specifically for this purpose.

It's by no means essential for good sex but damn it feels good.

Also, some guys don't always stay hard while recieving, but it doesn't always mean they're not enjoying it; the human body can only deal with so much at once sometimes. If you really want to keep him hard let him ride you 'cowboy' style, and you can keep him happy down there and let him enjoy himself, stroking or whatever.

Hope this helps.