10-18-2010, 05:03 PM
conechvn
Hello, I don't really know all that gay relationship stuff but one thing that I know is friendship. First take best advice about cooling down. Second, you made biggest mistake by giving him ultimatums. And what if you are wrong and he is not a gay? You may want him to be a gay but what if he is not? Are you ready to loss him as a friend too? You should not have said thing about limits and conditions.
Well, all I'm trying to do is imagining myself in his place:
My Best friend phones me and tells me that he is a gay. OK, I'm fine with this. Well, trying to be cool with this, but there's second part and it is over the acceptable.
"Accept that you are gay and you love me and we should live together» And even if he thinks that he might be a gay or bi. Don't you think it is bit too much? For one day? And even if he is a gay what if he is not in to you? Then what?
WELL I'M ASSUMING IT FROM MY POINT OF VIEW
"I overdid it. The only thing am worried about is our friendship. Our friendship is what matters.
If you can accept me the way I am right now, than let's just forget last phone conversation”.
These words are that I would like to hear from my best friend after attacking me the same way that you attacked your friend.
Hello, I don't really know all that gay relationship stuff but one thing that I know is friendship. First take best advice about cooling down. Second, you made biggest mistake by giving him ultimatums. And what if you are wrong and he is not a gay? You may want him to be a gay but what if he is not? Are you ready to loss him as a friend too? You should not have said thing about limits and conditions.
Well, all I'm trying to do is imagining myself in his place:
My Best friend phones me and tells me that he is a gay. OK, I'm fine with this. Well, trying to be cool with this, but there's second part and it is over the acceptable.
"Accept that you are gay and you love me and we should live together» And even if he thinks that he might be a gay or bi. Don't you think it is bit too much? For one day? And even if he is a gay what if he is not in to you? Then what?
WELL I'M ASSUMING IT FROM MY POINT OF VIEW
"I overdid it. The only thing am worried about is our friendship. Our friendship is what matters.
If you can accept me the way I am right now, than let's just forget last phone conversation”.
These words are that I would like to hear from my best friend after attacking me the same way that you attacked your friend.
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