10-07-2010, 09:34 PM
Ah! A straight curious ally! I like that! Welcome to GS!
I'll try to help ya out. It's very very possible that you may be bisexual. I cannot be the judge, that is up to you and you make the final conclusive decision on that. Since you had girlfriends in high school, chances are you're still heterosexual. However, just because you have some feelings for the same sex... maybe you're not bisexual. It was like that with my ex (I may be wrong, but I'm pretty sure), except he was gay and he thought that he was bisexual. Actually at first he came out as bi (originally should have came out gay, but he figured he'd get a better reception coming out as bi)... then he properly came out as gay. The weird part was that he told me that he was developing some feelings for girls, but he's still gay. Nowadays, he says he's completely straight. I don't know... if he was with me, had strong sexual feelings for me and loved me with all of his heart... I'd say he was gay and still is, but back in the closet.
Well anyway... I'm not really the best person to give this kinda advice... since I've only really been in the LGBT game since 2008. I knew I was gay as early as 13-14... but didn't come to terms with it until 2008. Well good luck finding out about that!
I'll try to help ya out. It's very very possible that you may be bisexual. I cannot be the judge, that is up to you and you make the final conclusive decision on that. Since you had girlfriends in high school, chances are you're still heterosexual. However, just because you have some feelings for the same sex... maybe you're not bisexual. It was like that with my ex (I may be wrong, but I'm pretty sure), except he was gay and he thought that he was bisexual. Actually at first he came out as bi (originally should have came out gay, but he figured he'd get a better reception coming out as bi)... then he properly came out as gay. The weird part was that he told me that he was developing some feelings for girls, but he's still gay. Nowadays, he says he's completely straight. I don't know... if he was with me, had strong sexual feelings for me and loved me with all of his heart... I'd say he was gay and still is, but back in the closet.
Well anyway... I'm not really the best person to give this kinda advice... since I've only really been in the LGBT game since 2008. I knew I was gay as early as 13-14... but didn't come to terms with it until 2008. Well good luck finding out about that!
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