Gays againts gays.

[eastofeden]

I am going to suggest to you to really check yourself out and I mean that sincerely with no malice. As a behavioral scientist I am sure you are aware of the homophobic element who protest loudly because they are homosexuals themselves and cannot come to terms with it(Ted Haggard is the best example but others are SO EASY to find)....or one can say "Thou Doth Protest Too Much"

I was once told by someone who I respected more than I can say that what I didn't like outside myself was often (but not always) a reflection of what I didn't like inside myself that for one reason or another I hadn't come to terms with...perhaps because I was in denial or wasn't aware of it. I knew this was correct when I heard it but applying it has been difficult at times...it turns out it has been my most valuable tool.

I knew it was a great tool when I heard really jealous people talking about what their lover was doing because I knew that they were projecting their own thoughts and feelings on their lovers and assuming the other person did or thought about the same things they did...and since they were incapable of coming to terms with their own inconsistencies they insisted it was the other person...perhaps they had alot of purist or religious influences early on that brought alot of guilt and shame and created a moral paradox within themselves because they allowed other people to define morality for them... albeit unwillingly?...you sound like you might have the same problem and it is common...and you are worth the time it takes to overcome this problem. It is called "PROJECTION" and it is more common today than it has ever been...maybe even at a critical level and I think a behavioral scientist who would take an interest in this phenomenon and address it as a growing problem in society would be undertaking a worthy subject.

Start with being honorable yourself...if you do notice dishonorable behavior in other people...look in the mirror because painting people with such a broad brush is also dishonorable...that is easy for me to see...there is so much more only you can see. The trick is to want to overcome this behavior...if you don't want to do it you wont. I can also easily see that you are extremely disrespectful yourself and probably are unaware of it as you want to attack this outside yourself with such fervor. Good Luck...sincerely...you can overcome this if you want to..