10-20-2010, 02:17 AM
I'm fairly new to the LGBT community so I can only speak for myself. I'm the polar opposite of 95% of everything you described an gay person being. Most of the gay people I know are upstanding people. Sounds like you have had the misfortune of meeting the bottom of the barrel type people instead of the cream of the crop. I suggest you do some more research before you group 99.9% percent of gay men together. I like to people watch as well and its been my experience its pretty easy to pick the good apples from the bad apples. Sounds like you have chosen to focus on the bad ones. I have very high standards when it comes to the people who I associate with. If I get a bad vibe off a person I pay them no attention and move on because I know they aren't worth my time. Why are you wasting your time by seeking out and focusing on such negative people? Is your self image that screwed up?