10-21-2010, 06:17 PM
041779, May I call you 04 for short?
Behavioral scientist?
Then you are aware that males (gay, bi straight) do not put much significance on sex as females. For males, sex is pretty much a handshake, a moment or two of pleasure, then they are done.
For women there is more emotion tied into the act, it becomes a promise - all because for women sex often means pregnancy and having offspring requires more than one adult to care for it.
We see it clearly in the LBGT community where Lesbians notoriously 'marry' and settle down and move in with each other almost on the first date, while gay 'boys' have lots of casual sex.
This is a problem of the gender and how males are wired differently than females. NOT a problem of sexual orientation.
Did you also go to high school? Think back what did the boys walk about in the locker room - why sex - It was a big competition of which boy did what girl, it was a matter of pride to have had sex early and to have lots of sex with lots of girls. I'll let you in on a little secret, most of those boys were lying through their teeth, often, and albeit well for the crowd they were lying too.
Males are wired - hard wired, and even the design of the human penis tell us they are wired - for sex, sex and more sex. Monogamy is not a natural human trait, promiscuity, especially by males is what we humans are designed for.
Perhaps you haven't reached these chapters in your behavioral class. Might I suggest a semester or two in human sexuality classes just in case you do not possess the horrible truth of humans and sex?
The problem is not the Gay - the problem is the Male.
Behavioral scientist?
Then you are aware that males (gay, bi straight) do not put much significance on sex as females. For males, sex is pretty much a handshake, a moment or two of pleasure, then they are done.
For women there is more emotion tied into the act, it becomes a promise - all because for women sex often means pregnancy and having offspring requires more than one adult to care for it.
We see it clearly in the LBGT community where Lesbians notoriously 'marry' and settle down and move in with each other almost on the first date, while gay 'boys' have lots of casual sex.
This is a problem of the gender and how males are wired differently than females. NOT a problem of sexual orientation.
Did you also go to high school? Think back what did the boys walk about in the locker room - why sex - It was a big competition of which boy did what girl, it was a matter of pride to have had sex early and to have lots of sex with lots of girls. I'll let you in on a little secret, most of those boys were lying through their teeth, often, and albeit well for the crowd they were lying too.
Males are wired - hard wired, and even the design of the human penis tell us they are wired - for sex, sex and more sex. Monogamy is not a natural human trait, promiscuity, especially by males is what we humans are designed for.
Perhaps you haven't reached these chapters in your behavioral class. Might I suggest a semester or two in human sexuality classes just in case you do not possess the horrible truth of humans and sex?
The problem is not the Gay - the problem is the Male.
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